Our Budget

Being newly married with a 1 year old and only one income is rather challenging at times. Between bills, groceries, and both my husband and I have trouble keeping track of how much we spend it gets rather messy at times.  I thought I would share with you how I planned a budget for the month of Mach. I was inspired to do this from Angie at Lariats and Lavender, so go check her bloggy home out too!

I also do not want to seem offensive or braggy about anything that I am saying in this post, I just want to show you how we are budgeting in hopes to help some of you out. I apologize in advance for anything that anyone doesn't like. Let's get started though, shall we?

Logan is in the military and gets paid E3 wages. On the first of the month we get $1,515.57 with his pay, BAH (housing allowance), and BAS (food allowance). We get around the same the 15th of the month as well. So here is how we are budgeting it out.

First pay day starting with $1,515.57
Rent $933.00
GED $79.00
Elena's Surgery $215.00
Bank Debt $160.00
Groceries $100.00
Total $1,487.00
Left $28.57
We will no be able to have any play money the beginning since we have some different things that we don't normally have to pay for. It's normally just Rent and Groceries the first half.

Something that I have learned from Angela is a nifty little trick for shopping. She had this idea to bring in only a couple of reusable bags and once they're full you're done! I plan on doing this and having each bag be designated to a food group since our family eats lots more than her and her wife! Thanks for that idea Angie! :)

Second pay day starting with $1,515.57
Verizon Bill $150.00
Insurance $130.00
Car Payment $312.75
Bike Payment $177.80
Internet $47.60
Vacuum Payment $95.39
Electric $170.00
Savings $50.00
Groceries $200.00
Total $1,333.54
Left $182.03

As you can see we have lots of bills to pay and need a good budget worksheet to work with. I am planning on using my $50.00 allowance that we normally have and putting it in savings with the $50.00 we are planning on putting in. We also have some other things we need to buy including 2 diaper covers $35.00 , 6 diaper inserts $102, and a living room rug that costs $45.00.

In a week or so Logan is taking a test to advance to E4! He got an EP (early promotion) so hopefully the extra points from that will help him advance forward. In the next month or so we may be getting a raise though!

If you have any advice for me as to how to go about planning out a better budget, let me know! Also I'm looking for advice on how you go about planning for a trip to the grocery store! Comment away.
xoxo
Katlyn

Yes I Have Joined In!


30DaysofLists
Let me tell you about something that is truly going to be the greatest thing about March 2012 in my life. It is called 30 Days of Lists and is pretty much means what the title says... For the month of March we will be doing 1 list a day to have at least one thing per day that we can accomplish. It may only be a list, but it is still something that you have done for the day. Sooooo... if you are interested in joining me on this awesome adventure, click on the picture above or in my sidebar to get started. It's that simple! Have fun. Hope to see you there!

Xo Katlyn

Goodbye February


Another Month is now leaving us in this new year and boy has it flown by! I would like to take this moment to thank my fellow sponsors for their lovely ads this month! It means a lot to my that you have an interest within my bloggy home somewhere and hope to work with you again!

On that note, spots are still available for March sponsors! If you are interested in seeing your ad on my sidebar click here! I know I have a small follower base right now, but would love to in the future have my blog be for profit. So check it out and let's be friends this wonderful month of March! 

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xoxo
Katlyn

Wild About That Wednesday {linky party}

Okay so I am over joyed to share with you guys the most amazing thing I woke up to this morning! I won The Wonder Forest's sponsor giveaway! So I'm going to tell you what I am receiving and how wild I am about it! :) I'm not trying to be braggy, but I just wanted to share with you how my luck has apparently turned and made my day amazing! Enjoy and don't forget to button & link up!

First I am getting a $25.00 shop credit to DondaLee's Shop on etsy. Super exciting since there are tons of things to choose from!
Second will be a 3 pack of Ruffled Halo Headbands from Rad Rag Designs! I have been wanting some headbands like these and am totally in love! I see selfies in the near future.
Third is another $25.00 shop credit to Saressa Designs Shop on etsy. Her jewlery is out of this world and inspiring. I cannot believe I am going to be getting something from this amazing site.
As I am always in need of new calenders, I was overjoyed to see that Shartreuse Studio Photography was throwing one in! Horray for beautiful photography on a calender! :)
Getting my button on a blog that is on a high level compared to me is an amazing feeling. So this medium ad space from Casey Weigand is going to be super fun!
 

Finally to wrap up this extreme giveaway is a $25.00 shop credit for When Shutters Click. I mean come on who wouldn't want jewelry or key chains with amazing photos in it? I know I can't wait to pick one out! :)

Now my lovelies it is time for you to button and link up! So have fun and enjoy! Also click the links to see each of the shops or blogs that have graced me with amazing gifts!
xoxo
Katlyn




My Babe...


Just thought I would share with you this uber cute video of Bentley jamming out with stickers on his face! Oh how I love my little monster man! :) Hope you enjoy!
xoxo
Katlyn

A Project Complete: Piggy Bank

Today I am also linking up to Vintage Wanna Bee's: Talent Tuesday with this project that I have been working on...

So over the last couple of weeks actually I have been trying to finish a project that my lovely chica Patricia introduced to me. It is a paper mache piggy bank for Bentley!

I wish I would have taken pictures to share with you how to go about making this amazing project but it didn't occur to me at the time. So I will try to explain to you the steps as I go... The supplies that you need are simple and inexpensive! These include: balloons, strips of newspaper, flour, Elmers glue, water, small paper cups, tape, spray paint, hot glue gun, cardboard, googly eyes, a knife, and pipe cleaners.


Step 1: Blow up a balloon to the size you would like it. I blew mine up quite big so the cups wouldn't look dis proportioned. Using 5 paper cups, tape them to the balloon to make 4 legs and the nose on your piggy.

Step 2: In a medium bowl combine flour, water, and only about a tablespoon of glue to create a paste. Then dunk the strips of newspaper into the paste so that it is covered but not too wet. Apply as many strips to your pig as needed. Apply 2-3 layers. Let dry overnight.

Step 3: Using a knife cut a spit in the top of the pig, big enough to insert coins, making sure to pop the balloon as well. Also cut out two triangles of cardboard for the ears of the pig.

Step 4: Spray paint entire pig and triangles. Allow to dry.

Step 5: Hot glue on googly eyes, ears, and a twirled pipe cleaner onto your pig. Well-ah! Enjoy your new piggy bank.

*Once full, simply break open the pig!


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xoxo
Katlyn

Just Write (1)


As many of you may know, I love writing about my feelings and thoughts here on my bloggy home! A lot of the time I feel like what I write on here doesn't really matter or stack up against other posts from other bloggers in the cybersphere. Maybe it's because I don't have a lot of followers or comments on my posts so it seems like its just another thing that is invisible. I know I shouldn't be worried about this because it is my blog and why does it matter what other people think? Just makes me feel insignificant at times.

Anyways.. I am very excited about this new link up that I have found via Expecting the Unknown. It is called Just Write and is brought to us by The Extraordinary Ordinary. This link up is to have you write about what you are feeling and the thoughts that may seem unimportant. So here I am writing about my feelings and will be linking up!  Its a lot of an introduction though, so I apologize! If you are interested in linking up as well, just click on the button below! 

Right now I am still thinking about how much pressure I am feeling to get a job. I feel as if I am just taking my husband for granted while he is working and I am at home all day taking care of a child. Being at home with Bent is fun and I don't really want to trade it up. Two incomes in our house would be really helpful though, and I don't think Logan would have such a hard time with letting me pamper myself once in a while. It seems like I never really got to experience all of the fun things that normal 18 year old's usually get to do. Why cant I just go get my nails done and go to a club? Well because I am responsible and love my child. I don't want to change this either, but shouldn't I be able to go out on the town with my girls while Bent stays with daddy for a night? Is that really too much to ask for? I just need to get a job... But what about paying for day care. Even living in Washington and having minimum wage be $8.50/hour that's not going to be enough to even pay for child care. Do you see where I struggle? I just feel stuck in the middle of a rock and a hard place where I am supposed to slither my way out in between. Ugh! I should just stop thinking about this and play it by ear right now until I know if I'm going to get into college or not. Money sucks... Period.

Darkly Dreaming Dexter: A Review

Book club has been a wonderful thing so far in my life. It has given me an excuse to actually sit down and read a good book while the hubs watches the babe! This was only my first month in the club, but I cannot wait to get to know the ladies better. This month we read Darkly Dreaming Dexter by Jeff Lindsay.
Personally I love dark and mysterious books. So when this was chosen I was jumping up and down! I haven't seen the show, but everyone told me that it was really captivating. I dove into this book, being able to be inside a serial killers head. Books take you on interesting journeys... When I first started I had a hard time being able to get interested. To me it started out a little rough and confusing at times, but once you got past a couple of chapters it was a breeze to become addicted to the dark comedy behind the eyes of Dexter. I saw twists in it that I didn't expect and the outcome of the ending was quite refreshing. It leaves off in a good place in order to start the next book in the series. Some people think that the ending seems a bit rushed within about 3 chapters out of 27. I for one enjoyed how it was laid out, but think that the author could have stretched it out a little farther with deep details. All together I rate this book at 4 stars and would recommend it to anyone with a twisted side. It was very good.
xoxo
Katlyn

The Huurrr...

Hey you party people! So as you may have noticed I have a new poll up on my side bar! -----> Vote? I think yes! Anyways.. I wanted to do a post about it so you can actually see what I've been thinking about doing. With exceptions to color of course, here are my guides! :)

Dipped Tips...
Now I was thinking I wanted to throw in some different colors, but I do really like the blue and pink. I might tone down my hair to a little more blonde or keep it the same, but how fun would this be?

Angled Bob...
I have had angled bobs before, but this one is just superb! It would get rid of a lot of my yucky hair from dying it and it's just super cute!

Red{ish} and Trimmed...
I already have red undertones in my hair so I know I could pull it off, but what do you guy think about the red hair? 

So go on and vote for my poll! It'll be up all of March I'm thinking so I can weigh out my options! But I want to hear what you guys think! Thanks! :)
xoxo
Katlyn

Schooling

Okay my friends... I am going absolutely berserk right now! As the time gets nearer and nearer to finish up this long process with the GED (thank the Lord) I have been thinking about what I would like to pursue once I have this step of my education complete. I don't want to do something that I really do not love in the long run. So I am going to vent in this post and I apologize in advance for this!

As you have been reading in earlier posts I was thinking about becoming a dental assistant and go to school to become a dental hygienist. Well after much deliberation (the jury is still out) I have come to the conclusion that it is totally not my dream job at all! I may get registered to be an assistant for the time while I'm in school just so I have a job, but I have no desire to look into people's nasty mouths all day for the rest of my life.

Now this brings us to another wall! I have no idea what I want to be. I have quite a few options, but feel as though each comes with obstacles or high debt. I will share with you what I have been thinking though, and what I am leaning towards at the moment.

Ultrasound Technician. This was the first thing that I wanted to go to school for since I have been thinking about it, but after some research on schools I have come to the conclusion that because I was not top in my class and indeed will have just a simple GED certificate, I will not be one of the 25 students to get accepted to the program. This breaks my heart, but I don't want to sit on a list for two years.

Behavioral Aide. I think it would be very rewarding to work with children with autism, but at the same time I'm not sure if it's right for me. What if I go mad and yell at the kid or something? Hm.. Still in my head though.

Drug & Alcohol Therapist. Since I grew up with an addicted father I think that I could have a growing passion to help people with troubles in this area. It does scare me a little to willingly put myself in a situation where I have to deal with people on drugs though. Will I have a mental break down?

Psychiatrist. I've had many problems in my life with my anxiety and depression. I have been diagnosed as borderline multi - personality bipolar disorder. Because of everything I have went through and how I think in different situations, I think I could really help and figure out what is going on inside someone's head to help them. My mother also thinks I would be really passionate in this field. I might start out as an assistant and work my way up, but I don't know how much schooling I would have to go through or how much it would cost. Being a teenage mother defiantly has it's challenges!

Do you have any advice for me?

xoxo
Katlyn

OMG!

I am so excited! My oldest brother Christopher and his girlfriend Brittany just got engaged! Just wanted to share and tell them CONGRATS! :) I love you guys!

Can It Be About Me? {a link up}

Another Saturday is upon us and you know what that means! Self Portraits with Dana @ The Wonder Forest! I couldn't really apply the theme this week due to me living on an island and not getting any snow.. So here is just a picture of muah looking spectacular, ha!
Obsessing Over...
I'm not totally obsessed with anything at the moment. I just have spring fever and want to get out of this apartment!

Working On...
The horrific project of getting my GED. Yes, I still have yet to get it just because of all the loops I'm having to jump through. You'd think they would make education easy to obtain!

Thinking About...
Needing a vacation from motherhood for a day! :) Just kidding, I love Bent to death!

Anticipating...
Building a house back in Wisconsin & getting more fishy friends (I had a dream about it last night) to add to my tank.

Listening To...
My husband shooting shit on his video game, 'sigh'!

Eating...
Nothing. Drinking Coca-Cola though!

Wishing...
I could just snap my fingers so I could get my GED and have a job. I am disliking having my husband imply that it would be nice to have two incomes. Men are frustrating some times! Gotta love them though.

xoxo
Katlyn



*Remember to link your self portrait up to Dana's blog! :)

Saturday Stack-Up

Blast from the past! I'd like to share with you some pictures of the day Bentley was born! I wasn't in labor for long at all, but I was exhausted from not sleeping at all the night before and contractions were kicking my butt. I did it all by myself though and wouldn't change it for the world! No drugs for this girl :) So I hope you enjoy my little twist on Saturday stack up! And join it! 








Ohh, and here's Elena when we first got her, and last night in a 'wiener wrap'!
xoxo 
Katlyn

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Pearly Whites & Mayhem!







I thought I would share with you some pictures from our daily life. The goofy ones that normally aren't shared so much. These include pictures of Bentley's mouth of pearly whites! I cannot believe how fast he's gotten his teeth, but am semi-happy that they all cut through really fast! Please forgive my non-makeup face and dirty sock, ha-ha!

My Interests...What Are Yours?

Hello you wonderful people! Let's share, shall we? Let me apologize for this super long post!

So I've been thinking, since I'm technically an adult now (Eewh! I hate that word.) I should really take the initiative to keep up with things that I really enjoy doing and teaching Bentley new things! So I have made a list and what I want to expand on. Let me tell you why! :)

To start out one of my favorite things to do is crafting. I think my love for all things paper, fabric, and glue has come from my mother and how she raised my brothers and I. You see, in order for her to actually be able to raise us she did home daycare for many years and then worked at a child care center while I was still young. When working in these areas you have to of course keep the kids entertained, so thus crafts and homemade games were born! I have developed my own love for different, more difficult crafts including crocheting! I am trying to build a better understanding for this wonderful art and plan to create a granny square throw for my living room. Wish me luck? I think crafts are important in people's lives, especially kids! They need an outlet for creativity and I love to see how their little minds work with materials. Bentley's always going to be busy creating things with me! :)

Another thing that I see to be of great importance is to get Bent out of the house. A couple of ways that I am to do so is camping and gardening. These (I think) are super fun. You get to be dirty and run around outside. I have the greatest memories of camping with my family and Logan's. I hope Bentley will like it as much as we do! I hope to take him on a waterfall adventure where we go all around and see how many waterfalls we can see in a day, camping at the last one! Fun, right? :) Planting a garden is also fun to me. Seeing all of the beautiful colors all together when you plant a flower bed. Tasting the fresh veggies hand picked from it, knowing there aren't any gross chemicals on them to make you sick. In the spring, we plan on planting container gardens since we live in apartments and don't have a big yard. Do what you can though! I've even been seeing some very pretty Primroses out already! Woo-Hoo!

Blogging! Duh, I love blogging! It has opened up a new world for me where I have the ability to share and journal my feelings and thoughts. Tracking Bentley's milestones along the way. I started out just using a notebook and keeping a diary, but found that I didn't really enjoy it as much and would forget about it. With my blog I love designing different things for it to make it pretty and always, I mean always want to be on it! It's rather addicting. From wanting my blog to be the best it can be my love for web design was born. I have even been interested in taking college classes to better learn and understand about all the programs available to me. We shall see what my future holds for me! I hope to keep blogging and maybe even open the door to my children as a way to help them it their feelings and coping mechanisms.

Being active is super important. Finding different activities to do that you enjoy and keep your body up to par is a big part of life. For me their are many different things that I love to do to keep myself happy. These include Water Skiing and Cheer leading! In high school I was on the cheer squad for 2 years (would have been all 4 if I didn't have such a hard high school life) and was totally in love. I went to camps and bettered myself with different skills. I wish I would have joined an elite team to travel. Another sport that was a huge thing in my life was water skiing. I grew up on a lake and would go out on the water with my family. It was learned at a young age to have fun tubing and skiing. When my oldest brother's ex-girlfriend came into our life she introduced me to the world of the water ski show teams! I got to climb human pyramids, and do tricks with a doubles partner! We went to state and had so much fun. Since it was such a big time commitment (4pm to dark all week and shows on the weekends) I could only do it for one year since I got sponsored. I was devastated and hope I'll be able to join up again when I move back to Wisconsin!

Talking about Wisconsin, the hubs and I were actually talking about our plans on what we are going to do when we move back. We might just go right ahead and build our dream house! Since we have our vehicles now and the loans will be paid off by the time we go back home we thought our house was the most important thing. We want to buy land and build in Madison since it is so beautiful and far enough away from our other life so we can set our own roots on a city! Plus schools are amazing there and it's beautiful!

Okay I think I can shut my mouth now since this post is very long and probably boring (sorry)... BUT if you do like this idea, why don't you link up? Don't forget to grab a Dreamy Meadow button to post underneath! :) You can find on on my sidebar or on my about me page!!
xoxo
Katlyn

Blueberry Monster

Let me introduce you to the cutest thing you've ever seen! Drum roll please.....

Bentley eating blueberry pancakes! How cute is this little monster? He's the best and now loves these creations from mommy! :) Easy and satisfying dinner, that's for sure!


The Other Child

I don't know about all of you people in the cyber world, but I feel like my fur baby is my child! One thing though is that I feel like I have been pushing Elena off to the side so I can deal with the rest of my life. I hate myself for doing this! I feel like a horrible mother (I say that a lot, don't I?) and like she'll have angst against me. Weird... I know.

To make up for all the neglect, I have gotten her a few little gifts which include a purple harness, a had stamped tag, as well as made her homemade doggie treats! Now it's time to show off my baby!

 xoxo
Katlyn

Wrap It Up

At this very moment I am sitting down on my thrifted couch (that I don't like very much) thinking about how my day planned out. I have come to realize that I would much rather prefer to be OCD about cleaning my house that my depressed self who wants to just sit around all day and sleep. The question that is lurking in my head though is weather or not I should push one issue out with another. Can OCD become a learned behavior? This I do not know. I have never really had a need to research obsessive compulsive disorder. Could I possibly have it? These are good questions I think, and ones that can only be answered by a professional. I always seem to need a psychiatrist. Another issue... Actually getting my darn doctor to get me into see a psychiatrist! Ahhh.. Whatever, my medicine seems to keep me at some sort of saneness! Don't you think?

Now on another note... I absolutely love love love when my baby boy gives me hugs! It makes me feel all tingly inside and makes me want him to hug me all day! Just thought I'd share. :)

The Problems of Life & Wild About That Wednesday

Sometimes the world seems to be against you. Everything you do is showered with the raindrops of failure. Why this is? I have no idea... The goal is to get past these hardships with feelings of success and happiness. It may not be easy. It my need several attempts, but you will get there. Just don't give up! :)

Yesterday for instance just wasn't my day.. The night before I just couldn't fall asleep for the life of me, so I decided it was a good idea to take a sleeping pill that I had been prescribed before I moved here. Well to say the least, it was a very bad idea! I ended up having very graphic, horrific dreams of things that happened in the past and some reoccurring dreams. Needless to say I woke up in tears but was so extremely tired that I had to shut my eyes. The sleeping pill didn't wear off until almost noon which is not a very good thing while having to care for a 13 month old! I felt like a horrible mother and couldn't get past the dreams that I was depressed for most of the day. I decided that I needed to get out of the house and take care of a couple things on my to-do list. So I headed over to the post office to send out a couple packages that have been sitting on my table. This was another thing that irritated me. There were probably about twenty people ahead of me standing in front of the doors so I couldn't get in (no big deal, the line was long). I was holding Bentley, my purse, a large box, and a small box on top. I was fine holding them, since I decided to go and do this with Bentley. It just made me a little frustrated when people just stared at me and said, "Oh you have a lot to carry!" (no shit)... After waiting about 10 minutes in line a very nice lady came in and started to 'flirt' with Bentley (it was nice since he doesn't see his grandma's a lot). She then noticed that I was struggling to carry the boxes and took them from me to set on the counter. Thank the Lord that there was ONE nice person at the post office! I then was brain dead and sent the boxes priority instead of parcel so I paid a butt load just to send them (honest mistake). I will get over that part though. After coming home and settling down a bit, the hubs came home and cheered me up. At least the end of my day was good! :)

Now today, I'm getting a little irritated at my cloth diapers. With Bentley getting sick and teething he gets bad diaper rash to begin with. I thought that the cloth diapers would make a difference, which they did, but I'm having trouble still. I've been giving him oatmeal baths, using a heavier rash cream (stripping diapers soon), and baby powder to cut down on some of the wetness. I think that it has something to do with the inserts not getting dry enough in my dryer and possibly different things in our detergents. So here's my plan! Stripping the inserts to start with. Getting Tiny Bubbles for the detergent. Using Bac Out for the staining and some odors. Using a Magic Stick for his rash. And setting up a little clothes line outside to let them bleach in the sun. Good idea right? I thought so! So let the experimenting begin!

On a positive note... I love my Kirby Sentria! :) But you already knew that.

One goal that I have and have to accomplish asap is to stop procrastinating! I have a list of things I need to get done, and I just sit around and look at it. What the heck!? So wish me luck my friends!

So, now for some fun! I have another link up day! It's called Wild About That Wednesday! Cool right? All you have to do is create a post telling me what you're wild about this week (pictures are recommended & remember to source) and link up to this post! Tell your friends to come and join! Let's have a linky party!

Let's get started! :)

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1. Parenthood. My new favorite TV show! I've been watching it constantly on Netflix! 
2. I am in need of spice organization! I love how a chalk board is incorporated!
3. Crayons that are recycled? I think yes.
4. I love this key chain. Of course if I were to get it it would say, "Logan Larson US Navy; my husband my hero!"
5. Plush donuts from The Wonder Forest Shop!
6. Love these "XO" pillows from The Wonder Forest Shop.
7. These stamps are on my list for starting my Etsy shop!
8. Super cute butterflies from Fawn & Flora Shop.
9. Glitter galore from Fawn & Flora Shop.
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